Polyamorous people tend to think about relationships a lot. I’m no exception, hence the blog. What I want to investigate in this post is the concept of the transactional and altruistic relationship models.
So let’s first define and agree what we mean by the term “transactional relationship” and why it’s an important stage in any relationship.
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Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading. Polyamorous folks seeking to qualify polyamory as a…
Source: Polyamory as a Sexual Orientation???
For romantic relationships in general there are three key factors
Two of these factors are finite and one is considered infinite from a polyamorous perspect (Love).
Continue reading “Love Rich but Time Poor”
Nothing can do more damage or kill a relationship than a lie.
A lie is defined as an intentional false and misleading statement or deception by omission. It can also be seen to include any action or failure to correct a pre-existing misconception.
Continue reading “Lying with silence”
I find myself in the rather unfortunate position of what I’ve decided to call a relationship transition.
I avoiding the usage of the term “breakup” because that usual infers a complete breakdown in all contact, and I’m hoping that’s not going to be the case.
Continue reading “All good things”
Hi folks, it’s been a while since I last posted anything and that’s mainly been down to the natural pressures of a busy life.
I’ve survived the last couple of months of crazy, busyness at work.
One of my partners tried a new possible relationship that crashed and burned even before it’s really start, which has caused her no end of emotional pain. My other partner has also had problems in one of her relations, all based on the fact he’d been honest with her about many things.
Continue reading “Things Change”
There is a fundamental difference between a monogamous cheater and a polyamorous person in a monogamous relationship.
Polyamory has no space for cheating, it’s quite the opposite. It’s about expressing our needs, wants and desires with the added benefit of possibly being able to make them a reality.
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I’ve been think about the idea of how you go about repairing a damaged relationship and I’ve come to an interesting conclusion.
Continue reading “Relationship Reset”
It’s been shown within business that micro management is a guaranteed way to lose a companies best and most talented employee’s, so why employ the same micro management approach to our relationships?
Continue reading “Relationship Micro Management”