I find myself in the rather unfortunate position of what I’ve decided to call a relationship transition.
I avoiding the usage of the term “breakup” because that usual infers a complete breakdown in all contact, and I’m hoping that’s not going to be the case.
I’d like to say I didn’t see it coming, but if I’m truly honest with myself it’s probably been on the cards for the last three to four months.
There’s never really a good time for this sort of thing to happen and this is no exception.
Both of us are feeling a bit numb and I guess struggling to understand what actually happened and how we got to this position.
For the record I wish to state that I have no regrets about the last two and a half years except not being able to take whatever steps would have been require to avert the current position.
My current aim is to do whatever I can to forge a new type of relationship with them for the future.
Things don’t always have to end but we do need to adapt to change.