Polyamorous people tend to think about relationships a lot. I’m no exception, hence the blog. What I want to investigate in this post is the concept of the transactional and altruistic relationship models.
So let’s first define and agree what we mean by the term “transactional relationship” and why it’s an important stage in any relationship.
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Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading. Polyamorous folks seeking to qualify polyamory as a…
Source: Polyamory as a Sexual Orientation???
For romantic relationships in general there are three key factors
Two of these factors are finite and one is considered infinite from a polyamorous perspect (Love).
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Nothing can do more damage or kill a relationship than a lie.
A lie is defined as an intentional false and misleading statement or deception by omission. It can also be seen to include any action or failure to correct a pre-existing misconception.
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It was suggested by one of my partners that I should watch the controversial channel 4 dating show “Naked Attraction” because a particular episode in the new season includes a self confessed “polyamorus couple”, she also warned be that it might make me slightly angry and she was right.
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There is a fundamental difference between a monogamous cheater and a polyamorous person in a monogamous relationship.
Polyamory has no space for cheating, it’s quite the opposite. It’s about expressing our needs, wants and desires with the added benefit of possibly being able to make them a reality.
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I’ve been think about the idea of how you go about repairing a damaged relationship and I’ve come to an interesting conclusion.
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It’s been shown within business that micro management is a guaranteed way to lose a companies best and most talented employee’s, so why employ the same micro management approach to our relationships?
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There is often some common confusion between the swinging lifestyle and polyamory, some people can even go as far as thinking the terms are synonymous and interchangeable.
Personally I see major differences and mixing them is really not a great idea in my view.
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