Separation

“Life is now changing
Time to start afresh today
Hoping for good things”

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Poly Dating

Polyamory is hard

Finding a date when you’re male, the wrong side of 40 and openly poly can be hard.

I’ve found there seems to be a view that perhaps you’re a bit of a player and not really interested in serious relationships.

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No Way it’s Okay Cupid

Dating application logos on mobile

I’ve recently had a quick glance at OK Cupid and found it to be near enough a complete waste of time even tho it claims to be non-monogamy friendly.

It’s matches seem to ignore my preferences and tends to bombard me with diabolical mis-matches and ads attempting to convert me to there paid service.

Pleanty Of Fish is even worse, the search keeps resetting to defaults and matching me with people up to 15 years my senior and way outside me selected age range. Also the number of automated bot accounts is truly shocking.

Lastly Tinder, what can I say…

Basically no one ever chats after a match, which seems to defeat the whole exercise.

I suspect it’s probably just an age thing 😉

When the sh*t hits the fan

Shit hits the fan

Over the years I’ve had some good times and some bad one. At the current moment things may have just hit an all time low, but I guess that this also means that the only way is up too.

I’m going to get back up, dust myself down and jump straight back in the fight.

There is nothing more dangerous than an extremely motivated me, with the bit between my teeth.

I do have to admit that I’m still waiting for karma to start paying back, I could really do with a break right now.

When has it been long enough

change-is-coming

I’m starting to wonder if it’s time to start looking for a new additional relationship. I didn’t want to feel like I was on the rebound and it’s been over 4 months now.

I miss much of what I had in my last relationship, but it had basically run its natural course.

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Not in the mood…

I’ve been rather quiet for the last few months as I been settling into a new job and location. I’ve also been mourning the loss of a relationship without really realising it.

I guess that’s what happens when you take tour eye off the ball.

I promised myself that I wouldn’t even consider looking for a potential new relationship until I was sure it was what I wanted, needed or desired.

I’m actually enjoy the extra time I have with my kids and that’s a really big bonus I didn’t expect.

I’m still poly, I’m still open about my feelings and feel no need to hide anything. It’s quite liberating and just what I need right now.

Regards

TK

Planning for the future

Planning for the future
Welcome To The Future Green Road Sign with Copy Room Over The Dramatic Clouds and Sky.

 

I’m having an interesting time right now, I resigned from my current job yesterday and have a new one starting in the middle of November.

One of my romantic relationships has started it’s transition into more of a friendship because I really want to keep that person in my life in some way.

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