Polyamory vs. Swinging

Polyamory vs Swinging

There is often some common confusion between the swinging lifestyle and polyamory, some people can even go as far as thinking the terms are synonymous and interchangeable.

Personally I see major differences and mixing them is really not a great idea in my view.

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Dictionary definition of the word slut

I’ve had a tough weekend looking after my kids and this has been topped off by a member of my extended family deciding that it’s okay to describe one of my partners as a “Slut” and then a few other choice words.

Now this word has many meanings for different people, but in this case was used purely as a weapon of attack and derogatory term, deliberately utilised to enforce there feelings of disgust at our life style choice and sow poison seeds of derision and hate.

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The Danger Of Using STI Risk To Control Others

One of the most critical parts of polyamory is being completely open, honest and truthful about sexual history and activity. A polycule is only as stong as the weakest link, it just takes one person doing something irresponsible to bring the whole world crashing down.

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Whispering in an ear

secretary style red pencil dress

“She’s awesome. I’ve told her everything. You’re in good hands, I promise. Again, I’m so, so sorry.”

I had the pleasure of reading the following story on a rather slow and boring Friday, it did the trick and lifted my soul.

It automatically conjured up visions of those amazing 1950’s pencil dresses and hobble skirts, just like the image I’ve added to this post.

There is something wonderfully feminine about them that I find highly alluring.

“The dress hugged her curves so tightly he wondered if she’d be able to sit down in it.”


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My need: His will

“Today has been a frustrating day for my sub wishes. Master…playing with me last night but not taking full advantage of me; I came, but it wasn’t a huge release, just a very small one as…”

I came across this post while just following my reader feed and then looking at related posts from those that had liked it.

I’ve found this to be a great source of new material to read and enjoy.

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