What is so important about a safe word anyway?
Why is there such a stigma attached to using one during a scene?
I’ve been thinking about this a lot this evening, not really sure why, but I needed to share it.
I also found a little scribble that says it all from my perspective, I hope you understand why it’s so important and has to be respected.
Using your safe word, does not say “I’m weak”
Rather it says “I matter”
Yielding to a safe word, does not say “I’m disappointed”
Rather it says “I care”