“To cheat or not to cheat, that is the question.”
Let’s be very clear on this point cheating is not a nice thing to do or have done to you, but it happens.
Probably the greatest challenges to any form of committed relationship is when one partner goes outside of it to look for a connection, either physical or emotional.
So when people find out about infidelity, they often make up all kinds of assumptions in their minds about how and why it happens.
More often than not, those assumptions are wrong. For example, most affairs happens to people who aren’t actually looking for them.
I’m in the process of writing another article on some of the most commonly held myths about infidelity and cheating, so watch this space.
I must admit I am actually personally drawn to the polyamorous relationship life style because of my abject disdain for cheating and the damage it causes.
I will not cheat and would never even consider getting involved with someone who is cheating on their partner(s), because in my view its just not necessary.
Source: To cheat or not to cheat.