Here’s an interesting question worth a few words, do you like watching other people having sex?
Personally I’d put myself firmly in the “YES” camp, but I guess that is also dependent on what form it takes.
There is something really quite erotic about watch someone you love having sex, I wouldn’t necessarily calling compersion, but something similar.
I wonder if there’s a similar word like compersion that can be used to define the inverse of lust? If not, perhaps there should be. This may well be the challenge of the week for me.
Any suggestions welcome 🙂
The inspiration for this post was the quote below and associated blog post.
“I really don’t like the sight of people having sex”, said a friend who was over for dinner last night. We were talking about both rom/com movies and the study I blogged on yesterday, about porn viewing.
I’ve been in the presence of people having sex, and it is quite erotic, naturally. And sometimes, it doesn’t do anything, and seems surprisingly normal. I guess it depends on the environment and mood and the people you are watching. As for the inverse of lust…well, “disgust” comes to mind and it rhymes…(as I did just there). 🙂
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I was think of something more positive, when you feel lust on behave of another, maybe compersion is the right term 😉
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I may have misread. My apologies. 🙂
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No problem 🙂
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It rocks, specially when you get invited to join. With it and for it!
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🙂
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Love watching people have sex, especially if it’s my partner with someone else. Not as turned on by being watched fucking but am turned on by being watched/lusted after while dancing, stripping, flirting, etc.
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I see some articles on voyeurism in the pipeline 🙂
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Ooohhhhh from me or you? Both! 😉
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Both, topic for the week ahead maybe?
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Oooohhhh a challenge/goal! I like it.
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Yes, I read your question as asking what is the opposite of lust. And yes, compersion does cover a fair amount of those feelings, but I see what you’re saying. If I think of something I’ll let you know. 😉 Maybe it’s time to create a new word?
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I was thinking along similar lines, time for a new poly word, any suggestions?
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1AM in Seattle…will sleep on it and see if anything comes to mind 😉
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So sleepless in Seattle – sounds like a good title for a movie 😉
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Yes, indeed, and quite apt in my life, the night owl I am. Can I ask where you are located?
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Split between the Midlands and South East in the UK
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I wouldn’t have guessed! I thought US. It dawns on me also, that I don’t know what you prefer to be called…
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TK is my scene name and alter ego 😉
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Gotcha. Nice to officially meet you, TK. You can call me Em.
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As both Master’s voyeur and exhibitionist, count me in! 💜
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You sound like someones special muse 🙂
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Why thank you, TK! i am slave to a devoted Master and part of a budding quad 💜
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I hope you’ll share some insight into being part of a quad in the future, I’d be happy to reblog it 🙂
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