Everyone with polyamory always talks about communication, communication and communication. But no one else really talks about what to actually say.
I read a great blog post on this subject a few days ago and thought it definitely worth sharing.
It’s so easy to simply slip into the everyday mundane and well used pattern of asking a loved one how their day was. True it a good start, but doesn’t really catalyse anything really meaningful unless the recipient takes the initiative.
So perhaps it’s time to take ownership of the conversation and ask more meaningful questions that can help nurture better understanding and communication in general.
I’ve played a game in the past and asked my partners for questions they’d like to ask and this has driven some of the most in depth and revealing conversation we’ve ever had.
Give it a try, trust me it’s fun 🙂
If you need some ideas, have a read of the following post.
“We tend to get stuck on, “How was your day?” Here are some questions you can ask your partner to improve your relationship synergy.”
Source: 7 Daily Q’s to Ask Your Partner