No one ever said that polyamory is easy, in fact it very hard because you have no room for complacency or apathy if you wish to maintain your relationships.
But what happens when a partner considers dating or starts dating someone you either have reservations or concerns about?
I would add that this is not a situation that I have come across yet, but like anything in this world if it can happen the likelihood is that it will at some point.
At the time I guess it will just have to be a judgement on how it will be handled.
The following blog post discusses such a situation and is definitely worth a read. It provides valuable insight into how such a position can be played out and it conclusion.
Any comments or further insight would be welcome as always.
“Today I asked Special Man Friend not to pursue anything with someone who is really making me uncomfortable. I went back and forth about it. Was it a veto? Was it unreasonable? Was I just being a big poly baby?”