Avoiding past mistakes has become very important to me in the last few weeks. I don’t wish to tread upon the proverbial garden rake again if I can avoid it.
Learning from our mistakes is very important and helps us to grow as people. So many of us fail in this area and then find past history being repeated.
Taking ownership of our mistakes is a fundamental part of being poly. I’ve heard it described in many ways but the term that keeps coming up is “Owning your own shut”. Seems like quite an apt description when you think about it.
I’ve been having some really good chats recently and they have really got me thinking about how to get things right.
Only time will tell if the self discoveries I’ve made will make a difference, but I really hope they do 🙂