Someone new has come into my life and to be totally honest, it was quite unexpected.
However, my main challenge at the moment is to not get so totally wrapped up in this new experience like I have done in the past.
I owe this to my primary relationship because it’s important to me and my long term partner in crime. I want them to be taken along on the ride with me and not get washed away or overcome.
I made mistakes in the past and I will not make them again in the future, so I will stay faithful to my beliefs in truth, trust, honesty, mindfulness and above all communication.
If we don’t learn from our mistakes, we will never grow as people. So I plan to take things nice and slow, I wish to savour ever moment of this new chance and not become swept away with the moment like I have done in the past.
I am poly, I am open to new possibilities but not at the expense of my existing relationship, it is to important to me and I am being honest about that with everyone involved. If that turns out to be a deal breaker, I will accept it as not a viable option. Some things are worth more and not open to compromise but I hope that this will not be an issue that ever arises.