A little while back I found this post on the reader feed and thought it worthy of a reblog, so today is the day.
The veto is a very dangerous thing and this article outlines why. It also offers some very sound and useful advice on an alternative approach to the veto.
I won’t spoil the surprise, but its really a simple solution and should really be the cornerstone of any relationship, not just a poly one.
Some people see the veto as the only way to protect a primary relationship, or protecting against someone else getting too close to a ‘significant other’. This by it’s very nature should raise alarm bells with ALL parties involved.
So take a look and draw your own conclusion.
Source: To Veto or Not To Veto..